05 Jul Top 10 Tips for Making the Most Out of Your Psychic Reading Over the Phone
Getting a great, meaningful psychic reading over the phone can be a magnificent experience.
While having an awesome reader obviously goes a long way towards making a session this good, there are also a few things you can do yourself.
Here are my top 10 tips for making the most out of your psychic reading by phone.
Top Tips for Making Your Psychic Reading Over the Phone a Magnificent Experience
#1 – Mentally Prepare Yourself
Did you make the appointment for your reading because there was something specific on your mind? Take some time out (a few hours or a day before you make the call) to think about the areas you hope to cover and/or questions you would like to ask during your session.
This is particularly important if you intend to speak to a spiritual medium, in which case it is very helpful to imagine making an appointment to meet your departed loved one at your reading’s time.
#2 – Relax
While it is perfectly normal (and totally understandable) for you to be a little nervous before a reading – especially if this is your first reading or you are dealing with a different, unfamiliar reader – being relaxed really helps the energy to flow during a session.
You will most likely find yourself relaxing within the first few minutes of your session anyway, but if you really are a nervous wreck, taking a few minutes to tell your reader how nervous you are and making small talk for a little while is often enough to put yourself at ease.
It is, however, not okay to be nervous out of fear that something alarming (like bad news, for instance) may come through. If you are afraid, could your fear be due to you getting a funny/bad vibe from your reader?
Not all readers are as genuine, honest and empathetic as my team*, so if you do get a bad vibe, I suggest you end the session immediately and find a reader you are more comfortable with.
*I would like to point out here that while I have never known any member of my team to give callers the heebie-jeebies, I suppose simple differences in personality could potentially cause a caller to feel a little uncomfortable. Should this ever happen to you, please do not hesitate to end the session and give me a call so I can put your mind at ease.
#3 – Ask the Correct Questions
Asking questions beginning with what, how or why is an excellent way to lead into an in-depth exploration of an issue.
For example, asking “how can I improve my relationship with my brother” or “what can I learn from the relationship I have with my brother” will really open the door to exploring this issue at lengths, whereas simply asking “will my relationship with my brother ever improve” could be answered easily with a simple “yes” or “no”.
Using the first (what, how or why) style of questioning will not only give you a much more meaningful, powerful reading but may also bring past life connections into play that could not have been discovered via yes/no type questions. I cannot stress the importance of this enough!
#4 – It’s All About the Energy
Trying to have a psychic reading over the phone without the energy flowing is like trying to empty a bucket of water with a colander – so keeping the energy flowing throughout your session is EXTREMELY important and THE key to getting a great, powerful reading.
One excellent way of keeping energy flowing is to stay open to every possibility. Any good reader will already have established the intention that your reading is for your best and highest good, so discuss the issues you called for, but be prepared to also welcome the unexpected.
Your participation also helps to keep energy flowing, so while it is true that your reader should do most of the talking, there is no need for you to listen in solemn silence. You can safely interact with your reader without fear of “giving something away” and even a simple, yet enthusiastic “Yes!” (assuming it makes sense, of course) can help to keep energy levels high.
There is, by the way, also no need to worry about the myths about psychic readers’ ability to read people’s minds – fact is, we can’t, so relax and enjoy our dialog.
#5 – Prevent Expectations from Setting You Up for Disappointment
This tip is especially important if your reading is with a spiritual medium – but allow me to explain with this example of something that happens all too often: someone calls a medium thinking “I’ll believe this is my Aunty Flo if she talks about knitting socks”.
The medium could be giving them plenty of validating information, but if they don’t hear about those socks, they refuse to believe it really is Aunty Flo – et voilà, disappointment strikes.
The thing to remember is that your spiritual medium’s job is to give spirits a voice. No, Aunty Flo may not say precisely what you wanted to hear, but she will say what she believes to be most important. If you approach your session bearing this in mind and go with it if most of the provided information makes sense, your reading will be far more enjoyable.
Occasionally, things may not appear to make sense during your session, but you will most likely have an “Oh, now I get what he/she meant” moment later.
#6 – Take Notes
While people invariably state that they will undoubtedly remember everything, they usually don’t – so even if your memory rivals that of an elephant, do take notes!
In addition to writing down all important points, make sure to also jot down those seemingly insignificant things that don’t appear to make any sense at the time they come up – because they may make sense or be confirmed by a family member later.
#7 – Use the Right Phone
Offered by most intuitive readers and mediums, psychic readings by phone are an excellent choice for many people. There is, however, nothing quite as frustrating as trying to have a session over a mobile phone that keeps losing its signal, so unless you are sure that your reception will remain stable throughout your reading, it may be better to use a proper (landline) phone.
#8 – Eradicate Distractions
You cannot have a great, powerful psychic reading if you are distracted, so when you are having a psychic reading by phone, make sure you completely focus on your task at hand and relax in a comfortable, quiet place without any children or pets running about and asking for your attention; no annoying phone calls (i.e. ignoring call waiting and, if you are using a landline, turning off your mobile), and so on. You should also make sure that you are not in a hurry, as readings occasionally exceed their allotted time.
#9 – Avoid Alcohol & Recreational Drugs
While it is fine to take over-the-counter and prescription drugs, recreational drugs and alcohol may lower your vibrations and can have a detrimental impact on your energy fields.
You should therefore refrain from taking such drugs and drinking alcohol for at least 24 hours prior to your psychic reading session.
#10 – Enjoy Yourself!
Above all, make sure to enjoy your experience!
A great psychic reading should make you feel like you are having a conversation you never want to end with a friend. Ask questions, participate, get excited and HAVE FUN!
Book a Psychic Reading by Phone
Now that you know how to help your reader make your psychic reading a magnificent experience, you can make an appointment to address those issues that have been bothering you in the safe knowledge that you will enjoy your session.
Why not give me or a member of my team a call right now?